How to Know If We Share Similar Interests: Trusting Yourself to Pick the Right Partner 💖

When you’re dating, it’s natural to wonder, “How do I know if we share similar interests?” It seems like a straightforward question, but let’s dig deeper. The real question isn’t just about matching hobbies—it’s about how to trust yourself to pick the right person. 😊 As a coach who’s guided countless women to epic love, I’ve learned that shared interests don’t guarantee a great match. Instead, it’s about finding someone who makes you feel safe emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally. This guide will walk you through a transformative process to build self-trust and choose a partner who aligns with your heart, not just your hobbies. Let’s dive in! 🚀

The Real Question: Trusting Your Inner Goddess 🌟

When I was on my healing journey, I thought my “goddess woman” needed a partner who was just like me—someone who loved the same books, workouts, or spiritual practices. I believed shared interests equaled safety. But here’s the truth: I’ve met plenty of people with similar interests who were a terrible fit. 🙅‍♀️ Maybe you’ve experienced this too—a hiking buddy who checks all the boxes but leaves you feeling unseen or unsafe.

The root issue isn’t about matching interests—it’s about trusting yourself to choose a partner who aligns with your deeper needs. When you trust your inner goddess, you’ll naturally gravitate toward someone who makes you feel cherished and secure, whether or not they share your exact passions. 💫

Pro Tip: Shared interests are a bonus, not a requirement. Focus on how someone makes you feel, not just what you both like to do.

Step 1: Heal the Trust Within Yourself 🧘‍♀️

Self-trust is the foundation of choosing the right partner. Every time there’s a disconnect between what you say and what you do—like saying you’ll prioritize dating but swiping mindlessly—you erode that trust. Over time, this makes it harder to believe in your ability to pick the right person. 😔

To rebuild trust, start by aligning your actions with your intentions:

• Reflect on Your Patterns: Ask, “Where have I said one thing but done another?” Maybe you promised yourself you’d stop dating unavailable people but keep swiping on them. Be honest, not judgmental. 📝

• Identify the Root Cause: If it’s hard to follow through, there’s often a deeper reason, like fear of rejection or unworthiness. Healing this is key to trusting yourself.

• Seek Support: If you’re struggling to uncover or heal these blocks, our ASCENSION program can guide you to address the root causes and rebuild self-trust. Connect with my team here to learn more! 💬

Healing self-trust is like strengthening a muscle—it takes time but transforms how you approach dating.

Step 2: Take Small, Consistent Actions Toward Your Goal 🌱

Trust grows when you do what you say you’ll do. To choose the right partner, take small, consistent actions that align with your vision of love. These actions prove to yourself that you’re reliable and capable of making choices that honor your needs. 💪

Here’s how to start:

• Set Clear Intentions: Decide what you want in a partner beyond interests. For example, “I want someone who makes me feel emotionally safe and spiritually aligned.”

• Act on Your Intentions: If you say you’ll only date people who respect your boundaries, stick to it. End chats with matches who push you too fast. 🚫

• Start Small: Commit to one action per week, like sending a thoughtful message to a match who seems kind or saying no to a date that feels off. Small wins build confidence.

Each action reinforces your trust in yourself, making it easier to choose a partner who feels right for your heart and soul.

Stuck on this step? If following through feels overwhelming or you’re unsure how to take aligned actions, our ASCENSION program can provide tools and coaching to keep you consistent. Connect with my team here to learn more! 💬

Step 3: Focus on How They Make You Feel, Not Just Shared Interests 🥰

Instead of fixating on whether you both love yoga or sci-fi movies, pay attention to how a potential partner makes you feel. Safety—emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally—is the true indicator of alignment. 🌈

Ask yourself these questions when chatting or dating:

• Emotionally: Do they listen to you without judgment? Do you feel understood? 🗣️

• Physically: Do you feel at ease around them, or do you tense up? 🧘

• Spiritually: Do they respect your beliefs, even if they’re different? 🙏

• Mentally: Do they engage your mind and inspire you to grow? 💡

For example, you might meet someone who doesn’t share your love for hiking but makes you feel safe by checking in after a tough day or respecting your spiritual practices. That’s worth more than a shared playlist. 🎶 Conversely, someone who loves the same hobbies but dismisses your feelings isn’t a match, no matter how similar your interests seem.

Pro Tip: Journal after each date or chat. Write down how you felt in these four areas to sharpen your self-trust.

Stuck on this step? If you’re unsure how to assess your feelings or keep prioritizing interests over safety, our ASCENSION program can help you tune into your intuition and choose wisely. Connect with my team here to learn more! 💬

Step 4: Practice Trusting Your Intuition in Real Time 🌌

As you heal and take action, your intuition becomes a powerful guide for picking the right partner. To trust yourself, practice listening to that inner voice in real-time dating situations. It’s like a muscle—the more you use it, the stronger it gets. 💪

Here’s how to practice:

• Pause and Check In: Before responding to a message or agreeing to a date, pause. Ask, “Does this feel safe and aligned?” Listen to your gut. 🧠

• Honor Your No: If something feels off, even if they share your interests, say no. Trusting your “no” builds confidence in your “yes.” 🙅‍♀️

• Celebrate Your Wins: When you make a choice that feels right—like ending a chat with someone who feels unsafe—celebrate it. It reinforces your self-trust. 🎉

Over time, you’ll find that trusting yourself leads you to partners who align with your deeper needs, not just your surface-level interests.

Stuck on this step? If your intuition feels cloudy or you second-guess your choices, our ASCENSION program can support you in strengthening your inner guidance system. Connect with my team here to learn more! 💬

Final Thoughts: Trust Yourself to Find Epic Love 💫

Wondering if you share similar interests is a surface-level question—the real magic lies in trusting yourself to pick the right partner. By healing self-trust, taking consistent actions, focusing on how someone makes you feel, and practicing your intuition, you’ll attract someone who makes you feel safe and cherished, whether or not they share your exact passions. Your inner goddess knows the way—trust her. 😍

Ready to build unshakable self-trust and attract your dream partner? Join our ASCENSION program for personalized support to heal, align, and love boldly. Connect with us today! Let’s make this year the year you find epic love. ✨