I’ve been thinking a lot lately about who I am & what I want.

When I allow myself to ask these questions, I tend to find some parts of me that have been MIA.

The part that forgot how to dream.

The part that forgot how to be loved.

The part that wants connection.

Too often, I hear experts & gurus advise, “just let it go” when it comes to overthinking & anxiety.

This applies to dating too - “just have fun,” “don’t have any expectations,” & “there are many fish in the sea.”

If it was that easy, you would have already done it.

The plague of successful & smart women feeling unwanted is reaching mass proportions & no one is talking about it.

No one is talking about being on the dating scene & feeling UNsuccessful.

Your intuition isn't lost.

It's been with you since Day 1.

Freshman year of high school was when I started to learn about boys.

This is what I knew: nothing.

How to stop the delete & download cycle on the apps

The dating apps can be a godsend or it can be a living hell.

I’ve experienced both.